By Greg Pascucci
As we think about the future and what retirement living may look like, one of the most important considerations is whether a community will truly reflect our preferences. Retirement today isn’t about fitting into a pre-set mold; it’s about creating a lifestyle that feels authentic, whether that means peace and quiet, new friendships or a mix of both.
Here are five tips for choosing a community that honors individuality and empowers residents to live life their way:
1. Pay Attention to Staff Longevity
The people who work in a community are just as important as the buildings and amenities. Long-tenured staff often create a strong sense of trust and familiarity. They know residents well and can anticipate needs in a way that newer staff may not.
During a tour, don’t hesitate to ask: How long have most of your team members been here? Communities where employees stay for many years often foster deeper relationships, creating an environment where residents feel genuinely cared for.
2. Look for Resident Feedback Opportunities
A community thrives when residents have a voice in shaping daily life. One way to ensure this is through a Resident Council or similar forum, where they can share ideas and feedback directly with leadership. This collaboration helps make the community feel more inclusive and responsive to residents’ needs.
At The Carlisle Naples, a luxury senior rental community, residents meet regularly with the leadership team to discuss everything from dining preferences to upcoming activities. It’s not uncommon for the executive chef to preview a new dish with residents before adding it to the menu or for the Zest Director to coordinate an outing based on resident requests. This ongoing dialogue makes daily life feel more personalized and meaningful for residents.
3. Check for Accreditation
When comparing communities, ask if accreditation has been achieved and maintained. It can give added peace of mind that you’re considering a place with verified best practices and a dedication to continuous improvement.
At The Carlisle Naples, for example, the community has been accredited by CARF International since 2008, most recently receiving reaccreditation in 2023. This distinction is considered the senior living equivalent of a five-star hotel rating. It provides reassurance to residents and families that the community is committed to excellence well beyond the basics.
4. Ask About Dining Flexibility
Dining is central to daily life, and choice is key. Fixed mealtimes and limited options can feel restrictive, so it’s important to look for communities that provide flexibility and variety.
The Carlisle Naples offers 12-hour dining, giving residents the freedom to enjoy meals on their own schedule. In addition to classic menu favorites, a FreshZest plant-forward menu provides nutritious, seasonal choices for those who want lighter or health-conscious meals.
No matter where you’re considering, find out if the dining program mirrors the way you like to eat at home: on your own time and with options that fit your preferences.
5. Consider Transition Support
Moving into a community can feel overwhelming, especially in the first few weeks. Some communities make this transition easier by connecting newcomers with resident ambassadors, neighbors who walk alongside new residents, make introductions and provide companionship as they settle in.
According to Bill Diamond, The Carlisle Naples’ Executive Director, “Transitions are not just smooth, they’re personal. We don’t tell you what to do. We listen to how you want to live, and then make that possible.”
When evaluating communities, ask about the support systems in place for easing the transition. Resident ambassadors, orientation programs and long-tenured staff can make the difference between simply moving in and truly feeling at home.
6. Seek Out a Culture of Choice
Above all, the hallmark of a strong retirement community is respect for resident choice. Whether you want
want a quiet day with a good book, a bustling outing with friends or something in between, the community should support that decision.
At The Carlisle Naples, some residents prefer tranquil mornings, while others take advantage of outings, wellness classes or social clubs. And, best of all, there is peace of mind for residents and families in knowing supportive care is available, if and when needed.
Choosing a retirement community isn’t about finding the busiest calendar or the most elaborate dining room. It’s about finding a place that reflects your individuality and offers the freedom to live the way you want.
“Every resident is different, and that’s the point,” added Diamond. “At The Carlisle Naples, we don’t just welcome you, we help you thrive on your own terms.”
Located at 6945 Carlisle Court in Naples, The Carlisle offers independent and assisted living lifestyles featuring spacious one-and two-bedroom residences, housekeeping, maintenance, transportation, all utilities except telephone, Zest wellness programming and elevated dining with daily, chef-prepared specials. The community is ECC licensed with an integrated health care clinic and rehabilitative therapies located onsite. The Carlisle Naples is accredited by the National Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities (CARF), an important distinction that provides residents with the assurance that the highest standards of quality care, services and safeguards are maintained. For more information about the community, please call 239-221-0017 or visit www.TheCarlisleNaples.com.
The Carlisle Naples
Luxury Rental Retirement Living
6945 Carlisle Court, Naples, FL 34109
239-221-0017 . www.TheCarlisleNaples.com