By Bruce Rosenblatt – Senior Housing Expert – Owner, Senior Housing Solutions
Most people think they would rather bring in help rather than consider moving to a senior living community. Is this the right answer?
Short term solution for a long term problem
Bringing in help might sound like the easy solution. No need to uproot yourself and move somewhere. In the right situation, bringing in help could be the correct solution, especially if you have a short term issue, however if your situation is more longer term, you may want to rethink this option.
Who’s going to change the light bulbs?
A house is a living entity. There are many moving parts in a constant state of wearing down. Not only is it an expense to maintain your home; trying to find quality workmen is a whole other challenge. Wouldn’t it be better to live a maintenance-free senior living community where you make one phone call and the maintenance guy comes and fixes whatever needs to be fixed? You don’t need to wait for him or even pay him!
As you age, household repairs become more difficult to manage. Simple chores like changing light bulbs become monumental tasks. Unfortunately, people, especially the elderly, are vulnerable to unscrupulous vendors. You might be able handle everything today, however you need to think about the time when you or your spouse are unable.
Chef-prepared meals or soup in a can?
Meal preparation at home is a challenge as we age. Shopping and cooking are not fun anymore. Especially, if you are alone, meal time is a lonely time. Many times, someone doesn’t eat a nutritionally balanced meal because of the hassle of preparing it.
Most home health aides are not chefs. They might buy some groceries and cook what they buy. There is not a menu of entrée choices or chef-prepared meals like you would enjoy at a senior living community plus, there is always someone to join you at your table… you’ll never worry about dining alone.
Transportation challenges
Transportation becomes a major issue for people who stay at home. You may not be able to drive yourself and the home care aide may not be able to drive you. Transportation to doctors’ appointments, excursions to places of interest is included at a senior living community.
Every day is full of interesting activities
If you are living at home and not able to get out; your life will revolve around your television. You have nothing in common with the home health aide.
If you lived at a senior living community, your days (and nights) are full of interesting and fun activities. There is card playing, lectures, concerts, excerise classes, movies and endless parties and celebrations.
Social Accountability
Personal hygiene is another issue for people who stay at home. People neglect to shower, brush their teeth, wear clean clothes or change their bed linens. Someone’s self-worth and dignity become lost.
If you lived at a senior living community, the staff can assist you with these tasks including personal laundry and housekeeping. There is also an on-site beauty salon, barber shop and even a visiting podiatrist. There is social accountability since you know you’re going to be around other people.
Limited access to services
There is a limit to what services can be brought to you in own home. At a senior living community, you have access to on-site physical therapy and visiting doctors and on-site nurses. If you were at home and had an emergency during the window of time when you didn’t have a health care aide, you could be in a life or death situation. In a senior living community, you have access to on-site 24/hr. emergency response.
Select don’t settle
By deciding to move to a senior living community, you can select where you want to live. If you stay in your home and try to manage with home health care and realize that 1) it’s too expensive or (2) it is not working for you; your options are now more limited, and you might need to settle on a place that wasn’t your first choice. You want to move before a crisis occurs, so you can enjoy the lifestyle of the community, meet new friends and have access to the many on-site services and amenities.
It’s a new beginning
There are times when a promise has been made to a parent or a spouse that a move to a senior community will never take place. These promises are many times made without fully understanding the impact this will have (physically, emotionally and financially) on the spouse or family members. People make these promises without researching other housing options and are basically unfamiliar with the many advantages of living at a senior living community. Being realistic and considering all the factors will remove any guilt and help create a better living arrangement for you or your loved one.
For more information, go to www.seniorhousingsolutions.net 239-595-0207